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Do not see this as losing something, but rather as having gained knowledge and wisdom... Everything that you learned from us being together, as well as from us being separated, you will be able to put in practice in your next relationship to avoid the traps that we got into.
EVERYTHING ALWAYS WORKS OUT FOR THE BEST, and this is no exception. Trust in yourself, trust in the Universe, trust in the power of Love that rules our lives. Please don’t get into feeling sorry for yourself and wanting to 'end it all'. Rather, thank God for the learning experience, and ask for the openness to recognize the blessings in your life. They are there... open yourself up to being you, accepting yourself completely without judgment, and loving yourself unconditionally.
I wish you joy, I wish you happiness, I wish you heaven on earth. Please trust in yourself and the Universe enough to take some deep breaths, and start looking to find and create joy in your life. It is there... simply step out and claim it.
Blessings to you... Be the light!
My Dear Madam,
I have just had the honour of receiving your letter, for which I beg to return my sincere acknowledgements. I am much concerned to find there was anything in my behaviour last night that did not meet your approbation; and though I am quite at a loss to discover in what point I could be so unfortunate as to offend you, I entreat your forgiveness [...]. My esteem for your whole family is very sincere; but if I have been so unfortunate as to give rise to a belief of more than I felt, or meant to express, I shall reproach myself for not having been more guarded in my professions of that esteem. [...] It is with great regret that I obey your commands of returning the letters, with which I have been honoured from you, and the lock of hair, which you so obligingly bestowed on me.
I am, dear Madam, Your most obedient humble Servant,
John Willoughby.
Dear John,
I have been seriously looking back upon our relationship and getting very clear on what I need and desire out of a relationship.
The conclusion I have come to is that we are too different in both our personality and our desired lifestyles to be able to successfully live together with joy, bliss, good communication, and interaction.
This is not about you or about me "winning or losing", or about one of us being wrong -- it is about two ways of being... which do not fulfill each other, or go together. Though I had been open to having you visit with the thought that possibly we could 'try' again, after thinking about it a lot, I realize that it is not a good idea. I am very clear that we are not the 'right' people for each other at this time in our lives.
Please forgive yourself, and me, for any 'mistakes' we made along the way... and remember that we both have grown immensely through being together... but the time has come to move on.
So basically what I am saying is that I would like to 'cancel' my invitation for you to visit. I feel at this time, that I need to move on with my life, and having you come and visit would not serve any positive purpose. You need to accept that this relationship is over and open yourself up to receiving the blessings of the universe...
在新课标的要求下，英语教育改革的新时期，转变教学观念，发展新的技能和技巧，是英语教学所面临的新形势，因此，如何更好的促进课堂教学质量，提高学生学习英语的兴趣，是我们讨论的共同话题。现在，八年级下学期的教学已经开始了，八年级的教材形式上发生了变化，并且多了阅读理解部分。其次八年级的语法知识点增多，难度也有所提高，对学生的口语表达能力和阅读能力都有新的要求，这就对教师的要求有了新的提高：
一.教师在教学的过程中首先要把握重难点
我认为这是教学中对教师最重要的要求。如果无法很好的把握重难点。则会对重点知识的讲授蜻蜓点水，导致学生也无法分清重难点。学生在学习的过程中把大量的时间花费在零散知识上，而忽视了重之之重。教师为了更好的把握重难点就要认真的研读教材，仔细研究教学参考，并且做好教学反思，从同学们的错误中反馈自己的失误，不断地摸索和探索。
二.其次语法讲解一定要清楚，透彻。
在讲解重点语法的过程中，教师要多举例子，并且要学生造句子，不能光停留在枯燥，抽象的讲解过程中。
三.应加强学生的对话强度，鼓励不开口说英语的学生开口。有些学生是对自己不自信，是因为曾经对话的过程中，出现失误却被老师尖刻的言语刺伤，所以当学生出现错误的时候应微笑着让他坐下，然后再纠正错误。有些同学的对话可能会脱离现实生活，但只要开口说英语就要鼓励。
四.在教学过程中应以学生为主体。
整个课堂是学生在开口说而不是老师在干巴巴的讲授。尤其是教材的最后一部分，阅读部分。要使同学们在默读的前提下做课本上要求的练习题，也可以确定几个话题，学生用英语进行讨论，锻炼他们用英文思考的能力，运用所学语言的能力。课文部分教材给出了一篇文章然后学生进行阅读，并且每篇文章后面都有若干个问题，在这一部分一定要让学生在默读的前提下独立完成回答问题。锻炼他们的应试能力。
五.八年级英语教学单词仍然是基础。
我个人认为应该打好学生的单词基础。在讲授的过程中可以让同学们记它们的同义词及反义词。并且让同学们自己造句子
六.培养学生们的课文背诵能力。
严格要求学生要背诵下来课文。这样可以培养他们的英语语感。
总之，无论是七年级英语教学还是八年级英语教学，最重要的是教学技巧要灵活，教学要扎实。为了提高英语教学质量，教师必须对英语课堂教学进行反思，不断完善教学过程，不断反思，不断进取，努力提高课堂教学质量。我们每个教师都应在教中思，思中教，方可求得发展.
开学快一个月了，在这一个月的教学中我发现了不少问题，主要表现在以下几个方面：
1.学生的书写有待提高，刚接这两班时我发现学生的书写特别差，我非常着急所以让学生每天写单词练书写，但是出乎我的预料，一周下来不但没有提高，有些学生反而更差了，通过了解我发现学生的抵抗情绪特别严重。在我值班的那天，我心平气和的和学生交谈了一次，特别是那几个调皮的男生，我和他们从人生谈起，逐渐说到书写的重要性，又给他们把26个字母的书写每人写了一遍，没想到从那天的书写就有了很大的变化。同时那几个调皮的男生上课也老实多了，这使我非常的感动，使我的信心大增。
2.应该给学生更多的时间朗读课文。通过这一个月的学习，我发现学生的朗读水平不高，仅仅通过课上练习是不够的，为了能够更好的让学生朗读课文，我让学生课后由组长带领朗读课文，然后每节课拿出时间让学生进行展示。通过阅读我发现学生缺少朗读方法
的指导，在今后的学习中，我要在这方面多对学生进行指导，多让他们练习。
3.知识运用能力差，通过学习Module 2 我发现学生的接受能力差，我忽视了学生的接受要有一个过程，仅仅听到学生口头回答以为掌握好了，以致我再讲完成时态的其他问题时就出现了问题。我深刻反思以后，决定从读入手，让学生先从语感开始，然后把自己说的最好的句子写下来，这样一步一步的效果明显好多了。
通过这些问题我觉得在今后的教学中，应该多关爱学生，把起点订的低一点，然后逐步引导，不能只靠自己主观意志，多分析学生，然后根据学生实际多练习，那样学生才能爱学。