Changing ourselves is not only necessary,but inevitable,especially when sometimes we are not able to change the challenging situations at all.
Something like that happened to me once.There was a time when I was laughed at by my classmates while I was walking.Puzzled about why they laughed at me,I decided to find out the of them told me that the way I walked was very strange and funny,1 was overwhelmed with sadness but I just couldn't change the way I walked.And the situation of being laughed at just didn't stop.Therefore,I changed my attitude towards the incident.I ignored those comments on me and walked as l used to.The comments soon disappeared and I was so glad to have succeeded in the quiet war.
To sum up,we should keep changing and growing.Change ourselves according to the specific situation,and our life will be full of strength and vigor.
改变自己，不仅是必要的，也是不可避免的，尤其是当我们根本无法改变那些具有挑战性的情况时。
这样的事情曾发生在我身上。曾经有一段时期当我走路时，被同学们嘲笑。我很不解他们为什么嘲笑我，我决定要找出答案。其中一个人告诉我，我走路的样子很奇怪也很滑稽。我陷入了悲伤但我无法改变走路方式。被嘲笑的情况也没有停下来。因此，我改变了对这件事的态度。我忽略了那些对我的评论并按我以前的方式走路。评论很快就消失了，我很高兴赢得了这场安静的战争。
总之，我们应保持变化，不断成长。根据具体的情况改变自己，我们的生活将会充满力量和活力。
"The objective conditions is not changed， can only change yourself." See this sentence， I recognized that is the truth. As a junior high school student learning is a top priority. But I give parents play has made a lot of trouble. Deal with the books all day， but the play is necessary， I will persist. The ancients cloud: fish and bear's paw cake and have it. But I don't believe the truth is， I will try to thank. Fish and bear's paw to all my bag! I want to learn to play and don't give up. But this time I again wrong， don't learn together， playing a hope. In these circumstances， I chose one， I began to study the change and become a good study darling female. In my eyes， you are learning the gold medal， in order to you， I change yourself! To the moon and stars twinkling in the sun and the moon， the clouds hide themselves， to cover themselves， and to rain clouds and show myself to the earth， and bury themselves raindrops， and you? You have to change your own? For you，
I still to change myself.。.
“客观条件不改变，只能改变自己。”看到这句话，我承认这是事实。作为一个初中学生学习是首要任务。但我给父母打了很多麻烦。整天处理的书，但这出戏是必要的，我将继续存在。古人云:鱼和熊掌蛋糕和拥有它。但是我不相信，事实是，我将试着谢谢。鱼和熊掌我所有的包！我想学习，不要放弃。但这一次我又错了，不要在一起学习，玩一个希望。在这种情况下，我选择了一个，我开始研究改变，成为一个良好的学习乖乖女。在我看来，你正在学习的金牌，为了你，我改变自己！月球在太阳和月亮和星星闪烁，乌云隐藏自己，弥补自己，雨云和展示自己，并将自己掩埋雨滴，你呢？你必须改变你自己的吗？给你的，我还是改变自己…
Everyone wants to be an excellent student. So not only other students will adore you, but also your parents will be proud of you. I study hard all the time and want to make big progress, so I listen to the teacher carefully. When I meet problems, I will ask the top students to give advice. Finally, I make it and I am very happy.
每个人都想成为优秀的学生，这样不仅会得到其他学生的崇拜，就连自己的父母都会为自己感到骄傲。我很努力学习，想取得较大的进步，所以我很认真听课。当我遇到问题时，我会向优秀的学生询问建议。最后，我成功做到了，真的很高兴。
From the earliest time to the present days, viewpoints concerning human nature were vehemently contended among prominent philosophers. Mencius believed human nature is good, and people are naturally inclined toward virtue. While, Xunzi deemed human are basically evil who need to be changed by man-made.
As it is widely known, human nature is that indestructible matrix upon which the character is built. Accordingly, to a large extent, the basic nature of human beings cannot be changed. On the other hand, each of us is naturally endowed with diverse both qualities and personalities, which makes us unfold an apparently distinct character. Then, it is hard for one to change his nature fundamentally. Regardless of whether nature is innate or habitus acquired, they were both a consistently developing courses that cannot be easily changed in a short time. Last but not the least, external influencing factors, like religious, education and even social institutions can merely direct our nature on account of the most limited control. Thus, it is only the surface that is capable of alteration, improvement and refinement.
In a word, the basic nature of human beings does not and cannot change and also no one can fundamentally change his nature in the short time. But people can make it perfect.
From my point of view, we should change ourselves when the situation can’t be changed any more. Difficulties hide in every corner of our life so we have to face them at times. But the problem is that we sometimes are not able to change the challenging situations at all as our abilities are limited. When it comes, we’d better change our attitude towards these difficulties. Only in this way can we get rid of the tough surroundings and be happy.
Something like that happened to me once. There was a time when I was laughed at by my classmates while I was walking. I was puzzled so I asked them why they laughed at me. One of them told me that the way I walked was very strange and funny. I was sad but I just couldn’t change the way I walked. And the situation of being laughed at by those people didn’t stop. Therefore, I changed my attitude towards the incident. I ignored those comments on me and walked as I used to. The comments soon disappeared and I was so glad to have succeeded in the quiet war.
So in my opinion, we should change ourselves first and then the situation can be changed at last. It is very difficult for us to change our surroundings but much easier to change ourselves. People around us will see our change, after which they may change their attitude toward us.
Things in the world are changing. People are changing and every creature is changing. Changing is a neutral word. We can’t judge it is good or bad in general, because every coin has two sides. But sometimes we need to change, because it is good for us. Sometimes we will meet some difficult or uncomfortable situation. When we are not able to change it, we need to change ourselves. If both of us refuse to budge, the problem would not be solved. Sometimes we need to change our life attitude; sometimes we need to change our views of seeing things; sometimes we need to tolerant; sometimes we need to be strong. Changing ourselves according to the specific situation is good for us.
I like staying late at night and getting up?late next morning. Usually, I won’t go to bed before one o’clock. When my clock alarms the next morning, I have to struggle for a long time to get up. Most of the time, I feel tired before class is over. So sometimes I can’t catch up with my teacher, because I can’t focus my mind. And I don’t like vegetable. Mostly I only eat meat. I am a little fat maybe because of that. I realize my lifestyle is unhealthy. I need to change it. I can’t sleep so late in the evening and should eat more vegetable. If I change my lifestyle, I can make my life more wonderful.
我喜欢晚睡，第二天早上又喜欢睡懒觉。通常，不到一点我是不会去睡觉的。第二天闹钟响的时候，我要挣扎很久才起得了床。大多数时间，我在下课前我就很累了。所以有时我都跟不上老师的进度，因为我无法集中精神。我还不喜欢吃蔬菜。我只吃肉。可能是因为这个原因所以我有点胖。我意识到我的生活方式是不健康的。我要去改变。我晚上不能睡太晚，而且要多吃蔬菜。如果我改变我的生活方式，我的生活将会更加精彩。
Things in the world are changing. People are changing and every creature is changing. Changing is a neutral word. We can’t judge it is good or bad in general, because every coin has two sides. But sometimes we need to change, because it is good for us. Sometimes we will meet some difficult or uncomfortable situation. When we are not able to change it, we need to change ourselves. If both of us refuse to budge, the problem would not be solved.
Sometimes we need to change our life attitude; sometimes we need to change our views of seeing things; sometimes we need to tolerant; sometimes we need to be strong. Changing ourselves according to the specific situation is good for us.
我们的人生往往是不会一帆风顺的，有的时候，为了更加的进步，我们是需要改变自己。改变自己是一个自我完善的过程。三国时的东吴名将吕蒙就是一个非常好的例子。吕蒙开始时只是晓得舞刀弄枪，不能勤于文化知识的培养，孙权在给吕蒙指出这一点之后，吕蒙发奋读书，后来连鲁肃都说：士别三日，当刮目相看。吕蒙因为孙权的一席话，改变了自己，真正做到了文武双全，为成就吴国的霸业打下基础。而吕蒙自然也就完善了自己的人格和修养，成功的改变了自己。
Things in the world are changing. People are changing and every creature is changing. Changing is a neutral word. We can’t judge it is good or bad in general， because every coin has two sides. But sometimes we need to change， because it is good for us. Sometimes we will meet some difficult or uncomfortable situation. When we are not able to change it， we need to change ourselves. If both of us refuse to budge， the problem would not be solved. Sometimes we need to change our life attitude; sometimes we need to change our views of seeing things; sometimes we need to tolerant; sometimes we need to be strong. Changing ourselves according to the specific situation is good for us.
世界上事情正在改变。人们正在改变，每一个生灵都正在改变。改变是一个中性的词。我们不能判断它是好是坏，因为都有两面性。但有时我们需要改变，因为它对我们有好处。有时我们会遇到一些困难或不舒服的情况。当我们不能改变它，我们需要改变自己。如果我们拒绝让步，问题不会解决。有时我们需要改变我们的生活态度，有时我们需要改变我们看待事物的观点，有时我们需要宽容，有时我们需要坚强。根据具体情况改变自己对我们有好处。
In our daily life, we can learn something from some cases. However, from my point of view, I think that it is essential for us to know ourselves in a right way. People who have a full awareness of the importance to improve themselves will discover themselves continuously. Therefore, we can say that if we want to change ourselves, we must bravely reveal ourselves.
Every coin has two sides, and we are no exception. When we experience some situations, we will find that there are many advantages of us. Thus, we can have a huge sense of satisfaction. We may have a little pride, because we are happy that we can make good use of our advantages to solve more difficult problems in the future. However, at the same time, we also can realize that there are still some disadvantages of us. These disadvantages will bring us different influences. I’d like to point out that people who can bravely accept and remove their disadvantages will gain a bright future. On the contrary, people who choose escape or ignorance their disadvantages will indulge themselves, and they no further progress.
Don’t indulge yourself. If we indulge ourselves, we will meet more terrible suffering in our later life. I know that when we find our weakness, we may say that I will never do that again, and regret doing so meaningless thing. I am such a fool. But when we meet similar situations next time, we will still tell ourselves that it doesn’t matter that I do it again. Then we will indulge ourselves to expand our disadvantages. It shows that some people who have no own principle will fail to realize their promises. When we can overcome our laziness, we will understand that solving some problems may be not so difficult. Therefore, we should try our best to control ourselves to pursue higher development.
There are no any excuses to indulge yourself. We should tell ourselves that we are capable to overcome our weakness, though it needs much time. However, if we succeed once, then we will be successful again. Last, we don’t indulge ourselves. We will become more complete.
Everyone can take actions to improve themselves. Don’t indulge yourself. If you succeed, you will acquire a huge wealth, and your life will become more brilliant.